The Truth Behind Fleshlight and Other Sex Toys

All the sexy lingerie in the world will do nothing for your sex life if you are not able to reach orgasm. Believe it or not there are thousands of women out there who have trouble finding that magic spot with a partner, but when left to their own devices with some sex devices, are brought to new heights of sexual pleasure. If you’ve never had the pleasure of seeking pleasure from a sex toy, here are some tips to help get you started:

First Figure Out if You Need to Get Out of Your Head

The key to mind-blowing orgasms is in your mind. If you are not able to relax during sex or masturbation then it will make no difference if the G-spot is stimulated or not, the brain will shut down your response to it. For some women it is the stress of not reaching orgasm that is causing the failure to do so. Masturbate to learn what turns you on, direct your partner there, and then relax as you wait for the fireworks to start.

Getting Your Good Vibrations

Research shows that many women are reaching their first orgasms with the help of a vibrator. This is because without the pressure of a partner to please, they are able to explore their own bodies at their own pace. Like this, a woman is able to get to know her own body and how to turn it on. The vibrator provides a sensation that is not found in the bedroom, giving the woman using it liberty at reaching orgasm.

Choosing the right vibrator may take a few attempts, as they do come in all shapes, sizes and with different perks. Some women are content with a basic smooth vibrator, while others are stimulated by ridges and bumps found on more adventurous varieties. Experts also recommend finger exploration, using a lubricant for added stimulation. This gets you used to the way your own body feels, and helps you to get comfortable with exploring it.

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The finger approach works because it feels most natural, much like the way a man is able to climax with the help of a Fleshlight. By simulating how a partners body would feel, the Fleshlight is able to provide men with the pleasure of having sex without having a sexual partner. Fingers, and then realistic vibrators can help women who have difficulty reaching an orgasm learn to embrace the feel of skin and against skin.

The next time you are flipping through the pages of a lingerie catalogue, take the time to check out the sex toy section too. Self stimulation and masturbation may be all that you need to make your sexy lingerie take you to that orgasm you have been dying to have.

 

How to Choose the Right Lube to Go With Your Sexy Lingerie

When you set out to buy that perfect negligee for a night of pleasure, don’t forget about throwing in a tube of lube. The right type of lubricant for sexual play will enhance the experience and even make it last longer. Arm yourself with the knowledge of the different types of lubes available, and you will be setting yourself up for a night of sexual pleasure that you will never forget.

There are a number of reasons why we use lube for sex. In some cases it is to add a bit of flavor to the festivities. Other times we are being a bit more daring and need to ensure a smooth entry point for our lover. Sometimes it is just a necessary component to combat the effects of too much wine or too many candles on the birthday cake. Whatever your reason, you are going to find that the best lube is going to make dressing up in that hot little sex number all the more worthwhile.

Water Based Lubes – This is probably the most common type of lubricant, mostly because it is very easy to clean up and won’t leave a stain on that new sexy lingerie. The only trouble is it may not go the whole distance, so reapplication is often necessary. Since it is safe to use however, you have no need to worry about any ill effects. Sometimes they may contain ingredients like glycerin or cellulose that certain people have a sensitivity to, so be careful if you are prone to allergic reactions. These are the kinds of lubes you’ll want to use when with toys, from your fleshlight to your couples toys.

lingerieSilicone Based Lubes – This is the super lube of sex play as it is known for its lasting power. Some are thicker than others, making them ideal for anal back door entry points. Just be wary of using silicone based lubes with sex toys like vibrators that are also made of silicone. For some reason they break down the product and will cause it to lose the smooth feeling you love.

Oil Based Lubes – There are some oil based lubes that can have a profound effect on your pleasure zones, but you need to take into consideration any latex or rubber condoms or toys you may be using. While oil may make things nice and slippery, they also have a nice way of destroying a condom before it has a chance to catch any little fish.

Sensation Lubes – You can also find lubes that have been enhanced for even more pleasure. Some heat up on contact, some may tingle and others are edible and taste delicious. Just take care of the amount used and where to avoid over stimulation before you are ready to finish the deed yourself.

Sexy lingerie is just the start for a night of sensual pleasure. Experiment with different lubes and you’ll find that you can steam up the sheets for a lot longer.

Choosing The Best Lingerie Color For You

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Gemma (8447630638)” by Lies Thru a Lens GemmaUploaded by tm. Licensed under CC BY 2.0 via Wikimedia Commons.

When it comes to buying lingerie, one of the least considered aspects is what color it should be. More often than not, women are concerned with the style and how it fits, rather than the color. While these things are important, it is the color that will really determine how the piece of lingerie is received. If you get the wrong color, it can turn a guy off, while getting the right color can drive a guy wild. Knowing what color to get therefore can be difficult, especially if you have not purchased any lingerie in the past. To help you out, here are some things that you should think about when trying to determine the best color lingerie for you.

The first thing to look at to help you determine what color lingerie to get is your eye color. Matching you lingerie to your eyes is a great move, and can really make your lingerie look amazing. If you have blue eyes, any shade of blue lingerie will look great on you. There are a lot of shades of blue, so you have plenty of options. Green-eyed ladies should stick with green lingerie, as this can give you a very unique look, since green is not a very common color for lingerie. Lastly, for those of you with brown eyes, purple lingerie will look amazing, but you can’t go wrong with anything in a dark color. You want something that will make your eyes stand out, so think about your eyes when you go shopping.

Second, think about your hair color. For blondes, you may want to go with a pastel piece of lingerie, as it will not over power the color of your hair. Think light pinks, blues, purples or greens. If you are a brunette, you will want a strong or earthy color. Things like navy blue and red will help them to stand out away from your dark hair. Lastly, if you have red hair, then go for bright and sassy colors. This could be more red, an emerald green or a crisp blue. You want something that is bold and stands out to go along with your hair. You are trying to tie your clothing in with your hair, so make sure you consider it before buying something.

Lastly, you will want to consider your skin tone. You want to get something that will not be washed away on you, but you also don’t want to get something that will clash with your skin. Try a few pieces on and see what goes well with your skin tone. Pick out a few dark ones along with a few lighter ones and see what works best. Also keep the tips mentioned above in mind when looking for pieces. You want to combine all three aspects as best as you can in order to get the best looking piece. If you can find a piece that matches your eyes, skin tone, and your hair, you are sure to have a piece that will look amazing on you.

 

 

 

Choosing Lingerie

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White garter belt and stockings” by MarcushsuOwn work. Licensed under CC BY-SA 3.0 via Wikimedia Commons.

When you are picking out a piece of lingerie, there are a few things to keep in mind. You want something that you are going to look great in, and something that your partner will love. There are a lot of different types of lingerie, and it can be hard to know what style and color is going to look best on you. If you are having a little trouble deciding, we have some tips that should help you out.

1. Colors – The first thing you want to think about is what color to get. Men like simple colors on girls, nothing too extravagant. They want to focus on you, not your clothing. Keep the colors simple, like your blacks, whites, or reds. Try and avoid the skin-colored pieces, as these are not very attractive. If you don’t know what color looks best on you, you usually can’t go wrong with all black, so start there.

2. Get the right fit – Don’t force yourself into something that will be uncomfortable or will not fit you well. If you spend the entire time you’re wearing it adjusting straps, repositioning the piece, or scratching because it itches, it’ll be noticeable. You want to make sure that you feel good in whatever piece you buy, so get something that is in your size, and something that you will be comfortable wearing.

3. Keep it Simple – Nothing will kill a mood faster than a man not knowing how to undo your garment. If there are too many straps, buckles, buttons or anything else, it will take time to undo it all. If your plan is for the man to undress you, keep the piece of lingerie simple. If, however, you are going to undress for him (which men love), then you can get something a little more complicated, provided you know how to take it off properly.

4. Choose Based On Your Assets – Not all women are made the same way. You may have things about your body that you love, and other parts that you hate. When you get lingerie, you want to get something that makes the parts you love look even better. That way you will feel even better while wearing it, and your man will love looking at you in it. There are a ton of different kinds of lingerie, so you should be able to find something that accentuates your features easily enough.

5. Price – Lastly, consider the price. If this is something you are just going to wear once, you probably don’t want to spend too much money on it. However, if this is something you could see yourself wearing on more than one occasion, then feel free to spend a little more to get something nicer. Remember that this is most likely going to end up on the floor, so don’t spend a fortune on something you don’t need.

Hopefully these few tips will help you to find a lingerie piece that is best for you the next time that you go shopping. Good luck!